Popular television actor Arjun Bijlani recently replied to the same question he has been pestered with for years by fans and the media: why he never showed up for the reality show “Bigg Boss”. Be it his cute boy image or his versatility, Bijlani is definitely a known face in the Indian television industry. The actor has worked in a number of successful serials and reality shows, but his absence from one of the most controversial and talked-about reality shows on Indian television always raised eyebrows.

Arjun shared what was going through his mind as to why he avoids “Bigg Boss.” He said, “The reason is that as reality shows, you are put through different situations where you can’t be yourself; different situations bring out your hyperness and your negativity. I prefer doing shows like this where I can just be as I am at home.”

The words of Arjun represent a common critique of reality TV—participants are put under high-pressure situations that may further perpetuate conflicts and emotional outbursts. For some, this is precisely the recipe for good TV viewing, while for Bijlani, these elements come in the way of his attempt at holding on to authenticity and staying positive.

Actors like Bijlani, who value a calm and controlled atmosphere, would rather keep away from such drama-filled episodes with high tension moments and controversy involved—something that forms the very basis of “Bigg Boss.” Arjun has found his niche in shows like Laughter Chefs that give him the scope to be what he is.

For now, though, Arjun Bijlani fans will have to be content with watching him in characters that have a streak of his real self, both on-screen and off-screen.